As your loved ones death doula, I will be the catalyst of communication and release. It can be a very beautiful process that can include a message they wish to tell you as they may not be able to as they pass. It can help them let go. Sometimes they are holding onto something that is keeping them physically here longer, even though their physical body is failing and you know it’s time for them to cross into the non physical. Each experience can vary depending on the personal situation.